6 Signs To Tell If He Doesn’t Give A Hoot To What You Are Saying

If you are a salesman, you may understand that it is vital to learn how to observe your prospect’s body language.

Is he listening to you?

Is he warming up to you?

is he buying your pitch?

Or is he simply plain disinterested? And shutting himself out and away from you?

You need to know. His body language will give you many hints. With that, you will be able to better understand if you are heading in the right direction.

And if you are not, you can prepare yourself to change the angle of your pitch rather than blabber on (a mistake I used to make…and still do sometimes!).

So what are the tell-tale signs?

Let me explain:

• He folds his arm (But could also be that he is feeling cold).
• He takes off and puts his glasses on the table during the conversation.
• He strums his fingers repeatedly on the table (tell-tale sign that he is getting impatient).
• He touches his neck repeatedly (meaning you are being a pain in the neck!).
• He looks over the top of his glasses (he is disapproving of what you are saying).

The Art of Negotiation – The Decoy Method

When you are negotiating, things may get tricky pretty fast when your opposite party tries to play hard ball with you.

Not to worry.

What I’m going to reveal to you is a good method you can use to turn things around – fast!

Negotiators call this the ‘decoy‘ method. What in the blue hell is that?

Let me explain…

Say, you and the other guy is haggling over a profit sharing cut. You want to outsource a deal to him. He wants a 70% cut from the total revenue . You are only prepared to give him 50%.

So the profit sharing cut is the crucial factor here. If that is a major issue with him, you may not want to keep talking about it. At least temporarily. Because that may be likely to get you nowhere. So what do you do next?

Invent A Totally New Issue!

Yep. Cook up a new story. Throw a smoke bomb. Anything. Just divert his attention away from the real issue.